Proverbs of a 38 yr old man
Give others first choice. You don't allows have to have the upper hand. God will take care of you and look out for you. Do you believe this? Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves. You honor Christ when you put others first. If you are wise and understand God’s ways, prove it by living an honorable life, doing good works with the humility that comes from wisdom.
Any of God's people who are poor should be glad he thinks so highly of them. But any who are rich should be glad when God makes them humble. Rich people will disappear like wild flowers scorched by the burning heat of the sun. The flowers lose their blossoms, and their beauty is destroyed. This is how the rich will disappear, as they go about their business. Scripture says, everyone who is now last will be first, and everyone who is first will be last. It’s true that some are preaching out of jealousy and rivalry. But others preach about Christ with pure motives. Lets give first choice from pure motives.
Study Gen. 13:8-11