Proverbs of a 38 yr old man

People criticize to find fault in one another. To one who listens, valid criticism is like a gold earring or other gold jewelry. But don't criticize other people if you're not perfect yourself. Better to be at a place of right footing than slipping trying to help someone falling. That is why many would rather criticize harshly than give their humble advice. Wrongly comparing one another’s righteousness than both living from Christ Righteousness. Remember, someone’s looking for their victory and not your gloat of there defeat. You, then, why do you judge your brother or sister? Or why do you treat them with contempt? For we will all stand before God’s judgment seat. Instead, we should make up our minds not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister. If your looking down on people as your criticizing them, you need to get out of the way. Your making people fall and trip on their way to Christ. Confusing them on His sound teaching of grace and truth.

Meditate Prov. 27:11

https://biblehub.com/proverbs/27-11.htm